A friendly guide for those visiting an Orthodox church for the first time

Before entering the church, remove your hat if you are a man, switch off your phone, and take a moment to quiet your mind. Make the sign of the cross and say a short prayer of thanks.

Dress modestly and with reverence. For women this usually means covered shoulders and restrained clothing; a headscarf is traditional, though not required everywhere. For men, long trousers and a shirt are appropriate. Avoid clothing that is overly casual or revealing.

When you enter, you may light a candle as a sign of prayer, venerate the icons, and make the sign of the cross. This is an act of love and reverence, not superstition.

During the service, stand quietly and attentively. Avoid unnecessary conversation and walking around. If you do not know all of the prayers, simply listen and pray in your heart. Your sincere presence matters more than outward confidence.

Holy Communion is the Body and Blood of Christ. Those who receive Communion are baptized Orthodox Christians who have prepared through prayer, fasting, and confession. If you are not Orthodox, or if you have not yet prepared, you may approach the priest at the end for a blessing and antidoron.

Confession is a personal conversation with a priest in which a person acknowledges their sins and receives God's forgiveness. Prayer notes are short lists of names submitted for prayer at the liturgy: for health or for the departed.

After the service, take a moment to give thanks to God. You may approach the priest for a blessing or ask a question. Do not hesitate to greet the other parishioners and join the coffee or conversation afterwards.